There are just a few immutable truths of the universe. Jesus loves you. Parenthood is hard. Kitchen remodeling is the fastest path to insanity. And taking Christmas card pictures of your children will not, WILL NOT, go as well as you'd like.
And when you finally do manage to get those pictures taken, the stack of cards will gather dust on your kitchen counter for way too long, at least until somebody cleans off the dust by spilling orange juice on the whole pile.
Or the photo place will lose your order.
Or you will lose your Christmas stamps.
Obviously, I have suffered Christmas card trauma in the past (incidentally, if you Google "goose poop Christmas", guess who the NUMBER ONE search result is? Yep.) I am determined to avoid it this year, and so far, I am on track.
I took my kids' Christmas card pictures already. Really! And not only that, I came straight home and ordered all my cards from the photo place. I am working on my address labels and Christmas letter this week, and I plan to put it all together just as soon as the cards arrive in a few days. In fact (don't laugh) my goal is to be 100% finished with my Christmas cards--as in stamped, in a neat stack, ready to mail--by November 15th. I'm doing it early, I'm avoiding the hassle, and I feel good about it.
Except that I haven't actually done it yet. But I'm going to. So it's working for me, in a maybe-if-I-manage-to-pull-this-off sort of way.
So, do you have a tip you'd like to share? Leave your clever WFMW tips below, and be sure to check in with the guidelines here first. Remember to link directly to your WFMW post, not to the front page of your blog.
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For now on our student budget, we do Christmas emails with pictures of the kids attached. Works for me :) !!
Posted by: An Ordinary Mom | Tuesday, October 23, 2007 at 10:27 PM
THAT is a really clever idea Shannon!
Posted by: WorksForMom | Tuesday, October 23, 2007 at 10:27 PM
I love that. I love to have the cards all taken care of close to Thanksgiving. Good job! Thankfully we had a family wedding in October so the photo shoot was an easy one this year...
Posted by: ellen b | Tuesday, October 23, 2007 at 10:29 PM
What a great tip - thanks for reminding me of something ELSE that's on my to-do list. Guess I won't make it by November 15th, but thanks for the encouragement to go ahead and get it done!
Thanks for hosting - have a great week!
Posted by: Karen@FamilyBriefs | Tuesday, October 23, 2007 at 10:30 PM
Thank you, Shannon. I'm waiting for our new baby to take our Christmas picture. I'm due on Christmas Day, so my cards may go out late this year. I'm with you though, it is never easy to get everyone looking clean and happy at the same time!
Posted by: Myfriendconnie@SmockityFrocks | Tuesday, October 23, 2007 at 10:32 PM
I too am thinking about Christmas cards. We send out a photo cd so I am getting it ready now. Plus I usually design my Christmas cards and need to come up with something soon. :)
Posted by: Heather | Tuesday, October 23, 2007 at 10:34 PM
I will have to say, I'm catching the worm this year (you know, early bird catches the worm). I've already taken the picture and ordered the photo cards. I'm like you, I hope to have the addressed and ready to go by Thanksgiving! I so love Christmas cards and getting them!
Posted by: Amy | Tuesday, October 23, 2007 at 10:37 PM
Great idea! I try to have Christmas ready by Thanksgiving. Cards, shopping, everything done, so I can spend the holiday season enjoying my family. I'm terribly behind this year though.
I have an aunt who spends a weekend in November with one of her friends, holed up in a hotel room, and that's when they address all their Christmas cards. I like that idea. Schedule a vacation, so you don't have kid interruptions. :)
Posted by: Lynnae @ From Under the Clutter | Tuesday, October 23, 2007 at 10:38 PM
Great idea in theory, but not so great when you have little ones who seem to change daily. I intend on fully embracing this tip once my kids are older though. I hate the stress of Christmas cards.
Posted by: Jill | Tuesday, October 23, 2007 at 10:52 PM
Thanks for the reminder!!
Posted by: Andrea | Tuesday, October 23, 2007 at 10:57 PM
I put all of my addresses into Word and print them off on label stickers. I use the return address labels that the charities send and the sticker-stamps that are sold at the warehouse stores (cost less than face value in Canada, anyway). I have this year's Christmas envelopes ready. Our family photo is scheduled for November 25 and we'll get them printed onto cards and into the envelopes. Now, I have to worry about writing a letter putting everything in the mail. The letter is most intimidating since I blog so often I have trouble summarizing. I want to write "Read my blog" on the card with the URL and leave it at that.
My own WFMW post is up.
Posted by: Barbara | Tuesday, October 23, 2007 at 11:13 PM
Thanks for the tip -- it reminded me to go do some retouching on the picture that I think I will use for our Christmas card!
Posted by: Angie @ Many Little Blessings | Tuesday, October 23, 2007 at 11:29 PM
Good for you! I bought two hundred or so regular cards last year on clearance, so maybe I'll just make lots of copies of a cute photo and slip one inside each card. Thanks for the reminder to start early!
Posted by: SAHMmy Says | Tuesday, October 23, 2007 at 11:30 PM
God, I love your ambition. I bow down. I bow down.
Posted by: JCK | Tuesday, October 23, 2007 at 11:55 PM
Maybe I'll just start double checking addresses. For me that always takes longer than writing the cards!
Posted by: TX Poppet | Wednesday, October 24, 2007 at 12:28 AM
Nice logo, I must say. I like it.
Posted by: Abel | Wednesday, October 24, 2007 at 12:31 AM
Hey Praise God for digital! I start taking pictures now for my Christmas cards - I just do it myself as you can take them over and over and over and over.... :0
Posted by: Janelle @ Now Play Happy | Wednesday, October 24, 2007 at 12:35 AM
Here it's not considered polite to send cards longer than two weeks before christmas.
So there's always the risk of them becoming new years cards. LOL!
Posted by: Laane | Wednesday, October 24, 2007 at 01:30 AM
I had the same idea for my WFMW post this week too! I added another one as well for variety's sake. :)
Posted by: Jenny | Wednesday, October 24, 2007 at 02:06 AM
I much appreciate photo Christmas cards vs generics. I love looking at my niece's chubby cheeks and I display those long after the holidays.
Posted by: Hilda | Wednesday, October 24, 2007 at 02:49 AM
I was just thinking about Christmas cards yesterday.Thanks.
Posted by: Missy | Wednesday, October 24, 2007 at 06:52 AM
Wow! You're good! I was just thinking about Christmas cards yesterday and the fact that I am going to have to get the kids ready for a picture. I always want to hold out and see if we get any snow but then that puts me all the way up to December 1st and that is cutting it a bit too close.
Posted by: MyStarbucks | Wednesday, October 24, 2007 at 07:35 AM
Last year, we took Christmas pictures on Labor Day and cards were ready to roll (with clever Christmas letter inside) on Thanksgiving Day.
This year...Mystical 8-Ball says, "Don't count on it."
Posted by: Activities Coordinator | Wednesday, October 24, 2007 at 07:37 AM
Christmas cards have never been a problem because of where you-know-who works...when you care enough to send the very best and all (snort). And, believe it or not, I have more than half of our Christmas shopping done :) Really.
Posted by: Everyday Mommy | Wednesday, October 24, 2007 at 08:00 AM
I haven't managed to get a card out in years. This year, I have started, in hopes of finishing prior to Mother's Day...
Seriously, finishing them early would help a lot.
Posted by: Tracy | Wednesday, October 24, 2007 at 08:35 AM
I get all my supplies set up in Oct, then I divide the # of cards by the # of wks in Nov & do that many a week. Then I'm done & usually ship them out Dec 1. I always keep a stack handy where I read my mail too incase one comes in that I didn't send to so I can get one out to them. I also keep track of who sends back & if I get no response for 2 yrs in row, unless there is a specific reason, I delete that person from my list.
Posted by: Veggiemomof2 | Wednesday, October 24, 2007 at 08:42 AM
I agree. Don't let the Christmas card guilt ruin your holiday season. Get it done early.
Posted by: Paige | Wednesday, October 24, 2007 at 08:58 AM
I was highly motivated to take Christmas pics early this year.
I bought a huge pile of 6-9 months winter clothing from a friend that is done having babies. One of the outfits is "Baby's First Christmas" and it included a santa hat. Since it won't fit my baby at Christmas time and I was dying to take pictures of him wearing it, I realized that Christmas cards was the perfect excuse to dress him up and pose him for my own gratification.
I already ordered cards from Walmart for only $0.33 each, including envelopes!
Addressing them and stamping them will be a different story all together...
Posted by: Dawn | Wednesday, October 24, 2007 at 09:00 AM
Way to plan ahead! Does my having homemade Christmas cards already made, that I made and didn't send out last year, but plan on using this year, count as planning ahead? lol
This is my 1st WFMW!
Posted by: Linda | Wednesday, October 24, 2007 at 09:13 AM
Sigh . . . time to think about Christmas cards, already?
Two years ago, I was so late jumping on the bandwagon for Christmas cards that I ended up sending out "New Year's" cards with letters. It gave me something to do the week between Christmas and New Year's Day!
Posted by: jubilee | Wednesday, October 24, 2007 at 09:17 AM
Oh yes, although I'm not quite as on the ball with this - we'll be getting pictures taken in a couple of weeks and I always try to have the cards done by the first week in December... :)
Posted by: Deb - Mom of 3 Girls | Wednesday, October 24, 2007 at 09:21 AM
Summer seems to always goose me in the butt to do stuff like this. She's such a super blogger.
Posted by: Christine | Wednesday, October 24, 2007 at 09:51 AM
OOHHH! Thanks for the reminder about posting Christmas cards! My baby is due on November 15th so I'll have to get things organised really soon!
Posted by: Naomi | Wednesday, October 24, 2007 at 10:19 AM
I do two Christmas card lists, one for our camp/retreat center and a personal one. Last year the personal one got lost somewhere along the way. I don't want that to happen again. We did get family pics taken - Deadwood style - but most of the cards were mailed after the holiday. Shame. On. Me.
Not this year. I am on top of it. I hope ☺.
Posted by: Kathleen Marie | Wednesday, October 24, 2007 at 10:53 AM
I have always been for the Christmas photo card but never had the kids pose well enough to use the pics I took. Now I take a great picture sometime during the fall and download it to Costco to make phot cards and my photocard challenges are reduced!!
Awesome post!
Posted by: Julie | Wednesday, October 24, 2007 at 11:14 AM
I'm on the same wave. I've got the kit to make my cards all set to go and I'm taking the annual picture next Tuesday at Epcot. I hate having the cards hanging over my head the 2nd week of December.
Posted by: kate | Wednesday, October 24, 2007 at 11:24 AM
I do my Christmas cards early, too. It makes me feel better to know it's done. But I agree, when I get lazy and procrastinate, things go wrong!
Posted by: dana | Wednesday, October 24, 2007 at 11:59 AM
Good planning. I don't think it's too early to start thinking about this at all. The more that gets done before the holidays get crazy, the more enjoyable the holiday season will be.
Posted by: Nicki | Wednesday, October 24, 2007 at 12:00 PM
I've been meaning to get on that... this weekend I will!
Posted by: Christina | Wednesday, October 24, 2007 at 01:06 PM
I really need to get started on mine. Thanks for the nudge!
Posted by: Cracked Mommy | Wednesday, October 24, 2007 at 01:32 PM
You go, girl! I've had mine done and addressed for a month. ;-) I am NEVER this far ahead. This year, I got home from our Maine vacation, ordered Christmas cards, and got them addressed the week they arrived. I am SO proud of myself. :-)
Posted by: dcrmom | Wednesday, October 24, 2007 at 02:10 PM
Great planning! I am terrible at Christmas cards; this year, with a new little one, I need to get on the ball! Thanks for the inspiration!
Posted by: polly | Wednesday, October 24, 2007 at 02:25 PM
I have big plans in this department too. Part of it is getting the (studio) pictures taken before Halloween. Only one week left.... Can I do it?
Posted by: Heidi | Wednesday, October 24, 2007 at 03:26 PM
Mine are done... no, wait - I still have 3 left that I need to get addresses for
( my family moves around like some people change underwear !! )
TG for OrganizedChristmas.com !!
Posted by: Lisa | Wednesday, October 24, 2007 at 04:20 PM
I do two Christmas card lists, one for our camp/retreat center and a personal one. Last year the personal one got lost somewhere along the way. I don't want that to happen again. We did get family pics taken - Deadwood style - but most of the cards were mailed after the holiday. Shame. On. Me.
Not this year. I am on top of it. I hope ☺.
Posted by: Kathleen Marie | Wednesday, October 24, 2007 at 05:55 PM
leftover pizza recipe :o)
Posted by: jenn | Wednesday, October 24, 2007 at 06:25 PM
No doubt our picture will be taken Dec. 18. Developed Dec. 20. Cards stuffed and addressed Dec. 23.
Cards mailed January 3. That's simply the way it is.
Posted by: Scott | Wednesday, October 24, 2007 at 06:29 PM
Sounds like an awesome system -- I hope it works out just as you plan! But one meek, mild suggestion from a lurker: Would you consider hand-writing your addresses instead of using preprinted labels? It just feels so impersonal and thoughtless when I get a Christmas card envelope with an address label -- especially when the card is preprinted, too -- from someone I consider a personal friend. And since I won't risk harming my real-life friendships by bringing up this admittedly minor issue, I'm getting this off my chest here in Bloggyland.
Posted by: | Wednesday, October 24, 2007 at 08:22 PM
I had forgotten how hard I laughed at your goose poop entry last year. It's still funny this year.
I think you should restage it and go ahead with the video.
Posted by: kelli in the mirror | Wednesday, October 24, 2007 at 08:45 PM
And btw, you're #1 AND #2 in google, with that post and this one.
And my helpful google thought I should look for "goose poop art". WHY? Is there a market for such?
Posted by: kelli in the mirror | Wednesday, October 24, 2007 at 08:47 PM
I just love to procrastinate until the very last minute. It just wouldn't be Christmas if I didn't think there was a chance I wouldn' get it all done in time ;-)
Posted by: chris | Wednesday, October 24, 2007 at 10:09 PM
just so you know, it is possible. last year, because we were moving from one country to the other, i had my christmas pictures, letter, and card (i made the card) done before the movers came, which was mid october. we are moving again, but not country to country, so not in such a rush. i do plan on having them done well before thanksgiving. the picture is what is going to be the toughest. and i don't have any tips. i just wanted to share this with you.:)
Posted by: Terina | Thursday, October 25, 2007 at 01:25 AM
the best idea!!! Making and preparing it early gave me a wonderful blissful time in finding a perfect gifts for my family and friends.
Posted by: prettylifeonline | Thursday, October 25, 2007 at 06:43 AM
When I saw the title of today's post, I instantly recalled the Goose Poop Picture tale! Still makes me laugh! Thanks for the memories!
Posted by: Jane | Thursday, October 25, 2007 at 10:50 AM
oh my...I have not laughed that hard in AGES!
I too have four children, ranging in age from 2 - 10, and I have yet to get a decent holiday photo.
I think this year I'm going to photoshop their little faces onto elf bodies and call it good! LOL... okay, maybe not!
Tiffany
Posted by: Tiffany | Thursday, October 25, 2007 at 11:36 AM
Great idea, we've gotten a lot of holiday card orders already and always encourage people to order their cards early :). Now of course, mine are not even started, ha ha.
Posted by: Mama Duck | Thursday, October 25, 2007 at 01:03 PM
Oh my, I am so glad that someone else works on the Christmas cards soon, too! I actually begin writing the Christmas letter in the summer. Everything is fresh then. I keep updating the address listing as I find people have moved. It cuts down on the e-mails of "Excuse me, but if you would like the yearly mass Christmas newsletter and photo card of the fam, please e-mail your address ASAP." Since our daughter's birthday is December 20, I'm cheap and dunk her birthday invite in, too. I also put a small listing of holiday church events that we are involved in. It's a multi-insert thing, but it works for me!
Posted by: Bailey's Leaf | Thursday, October 25, 2007 at 06:29 PM
The last time I tried to do Christmas cards, by March I'd decided it wasn't worth mailing them.
But I do applaud those who do!
Want my address? I love getting cards. ;)
Posted by: edj | Friday, October 26, 2007 at 01:28 AM
Wow, that's what I should do. I don't mail ours out until right before Christmas, because we don't decorate or celebrate Christmas until it's actually here...but I forget that just because I don't send them early, doesn't mean I can't get them ready early. Good idea!
Posted by: Jillian | Sunday, October 28, 2007 at 05:51 AM