Last week my grandmother stopped by for a visit; she had brought a folder of some of her old drawings and paintings to show my youngest son (himself a budding artist). I have many memories of my grandmother painting and drawing, but I don't remember seeing much of her actual work. Characteristically, she is modest and quiet about it, and she can't imagine why anyone would want to see what she has made.
And so, as she rifled through the folder with my son, I walked up behind her with great interest, to see what all she had done. The folder was full of years' worth of work, some dating back to the 1940's, and she blushingly let me look through it all.
But one drawing made my heart jump. It's a pencil drawing on yellowing paper, dated 1949. It's of a little girl with delicate features, a classic '40's bobbed haircut, and a short little dress.
It's my mother in 1949 (age 3), drawn by grandmother (age 23).
Even as I type these words, my own three-year-old daughter is sitting next to me, her head on my shoulder and her fingers poking the computer screen.
"Is dat Corrie?" she asks. It does kind of look like her.
"No, it's Mimi," I explain. She looks at me. I can see the puzzlement in her eyes. To her, Mimi is a grown up with an unending source of hugs and root beer.
"Mimi was once a three-year-old girl just like you," I tell her. "Her momma drew pictures of her, the same way I write stories about you."
She thinks about this for a second, and then she scampers off for more engaging conversation with Dora the Explorer. But I'm left with the wonder of this drawing, the tangible, almost mystical evidence of a mother who loved her girl, who grew up to love her girl, who grew up to love her girl.
I'm having the picture framed for Corrie's bedroom. She won't understand the beauty of it now. But when, Lord willing, she has a three-year-old daughter, it will take her breath away.
What a sweet memory to have!! You're right--this is definitely a treasure.
Posted by: Grace | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 12:03 AM
What a great drawing. And what a precious gift for your daughter.
Posted by: Tanya | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 12:04 AM
Swoon. Gosh, what a gem.
Posted by: All Adither | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 12:08 AM
Oh, how precious!
Posted by: Liza's Eyeview | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 12:42 AM
what a treasure to have!
Posted by: chickadee | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 01:41 AM
Wow. Isn't it amazing when life comes full circle like that?
You should print this post and put it inside the frame, so that you're daughter will be sure to always know the story (and sentiment) behind the picture...
Posted by: The Secret Life of Kat | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 02:10 AM
That takes MY breath away. What a treasure!
Posted by: Ashleigh | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 02:19 AM
Incredible story, great post! Makes me yearn for a daughter...
Posted by: To Think is to Create | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 03:35 AM
What a beautiful post and a beautiful drawing. The circle of life...
Posted by: Beth_C | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 05:42 AM
A sweet picture with a beautiful story behind it. That's awesome she has saved her drawings.
Posted by: Nancy | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 05:59 AM
That is VERY, VERY special!
I can appreciate how unique and special that is. My Mom has a painting of my grandmother when she was 2. The painting looks exactly like my Mom did when she was 2 AND like me when I was 2!
Posted by: Multi-Tasking Mommy | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 06:02 AM
You are truly blessed to have such a precious treasure, and what a beautiful story.
Posted by: Amy | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 06:42 AM
You are very blessed. Very. Blessed.
Posted by: Llama Momma | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 06:49 AM
How precious is that? So cool.
Posted by: Sister Honey Bunch | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 06:54 AM
That is so cool! So very precious and a treasure for you.
Posted by: Queen Mother | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 07:01 AM
What a wonderful treasure! And what a treasure that YOUR grandma is still with you and able to share her work with your son.
Posted by: Edi | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 07:16 AM
That's awesome, just awesome. What a gift!
Posted by: Shelia | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 07:41 AM
What talent. What a great treasure.
Posted by: chocolatechic | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 07:42 AM
That is a great idea! She will treasure it!
Posted by: bee | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 08:13 AM
My great-grandma was an artist. She painted (mostly barns). Recently my mom built a chapel in a very particular style (http://aberdeenmanor.com/the%5Fchapel/) to go with the ballroom and event center she owns. After the design was finalized, during the construction, we unearthed a painting that my great-grandma had done (her grandma). It's the only painting of a church that anyone remembers her doing, and the shape of the building and the windows is identical to the chapel my mom built. It was totally eerie.
Anyway, her paintings are treasured heirlooms in this family. I have two, and they are among the things I'd save from a fire.
What a gift that your grandmother is still living, and is able to give these to you and to tell you the stories!
Posted by: Amy | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 08:14 AM
Oh wow, what a special tangible memory to have.
Posted by: Devildogwife | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 08:24 AM
My Grandmother was also a very modest artist. For some reason she quit painting and drawing long before I was born, but we have her framed drawing of my Grandpa's (her husband) Army picture when he enlisted for WWII. It is on display in one of my parents guest rooms, and is such a classic portrait of such a handsome young man. We will treasure it always.
Posted by: Amy | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 08:26 AM
Isn't that just the sweetest thing??
Posted by: Emily | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 08:29 AM
WOW!
When I first saw the picture I thought it was Corrie, too. Then as I read I figured it was a picture of you. What a surprise to hear that it was picture of Mom! All of you look so much alike.
Posted by: rsd | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 08:31 AM
That is so sweet. What a great treasure to have and pass down!
Posted by: Erin | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 08:41 AM
Lovely. What a legacy.
Posted by: Jenni | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 08:47 AM
Last Christmas, my mother-in-law sent every one of her kids a binder full of her art (starting with her fashion designs in college through her latest painting), pictures she had of that child, poems she wrote, and favourite family recipes. She sends updates every Christmas of that year's paintings. It will be one of the first things I grab if we ever have to evacuate the house.
Posted by: Jamie | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 08:51 AM
I love that so much it almost hurts. You are so very lucky.
Posted by: chilihead | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 08:53 AM
What a gift! This made me tear up!
Posted by: aimee | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 08:58 AM
That's beautiful!!
Posted by: Carla Robinson | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 09:01 AM
What a great story, and an even wonderful gift for your daughter. It even made me tear up a bit thinking of my daughter and the legacy I leave her.
Posted by: Char | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 09:12 AM
What a precious thing to have!
Posted by: Nicki | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 09:12 AM
The first thing I thought of when I saw this was that is "was" Corrie. How precious.
Posted by: kelli | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 09:33 AM
Wow! What a blessing to be able to have and pass down not only to your family but to the generations that follow!
Posted by: popsicles on the porch | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 09:48 AM
That is so wonderful. I have been helping to archive a lot of my grandparents' memories and pictures and it is just priceless when you find a treasure like that.
My husband's grandma was also an artist. She has an awesome story about one of her paintings that she had done in college. She gave it to a friend, and then fourty years later, she found it at the D.I. (second-hand store)! Sad that it had been given away, but it became one of her favorite paintings because of the story!
Posted by: LizB | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 09:51 AM
Your post made me cry (isn't that funny... someone you've never met and have lurked on thier blog periodically and their words can still touch you that deeply). I am at the point in my life where I am psychologically ready to have a child and pass on that type of memory (now if I could just get the finances in order)...
Posted by: Jenna | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 10:01 AM
My husband has a certificate from his late father's naval days. We framed it and hung it in our son's nursery. We named him for his grandfathers and I hope he treasures it when he grows into a man.
What a beautiful legacy for your daughter.
Posted by: jennielynn | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 10:16 AM
What an amazing treasure to find!
Posted by: Kelly | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 10:16 AM
What an amazing treasure to find!
Posted by: Kelly | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 10:17 AM
Wow, I love that! Truly being a mother enables you to see your own mother through her mother's eyes! How sweet!
Posted by: sheila | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 10:27 AM
There is something so mystical that happens when you think about your grown, adult parents being innocent children. What a wonderful blessing to have that drawing. And I'm positive your little girl will love it.
Posted by: Reynie | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 10:34 AM
Oh, what a sweet treasure! I'm all teary... =)
Posted by: Proverbs31 | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 10:36 AM
Priceless.
Posted by: Alana | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 10:39 AM
I love stuff like this. That is such a wonderful legacy for your family and your daughter. Your grandmother is very talented.
Posted by: Elaine | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 10:43 AM
what a priceless and wonderful picture for you and for your daughter! Can your grandmother still draw? It would be really neat if she could draw a picture of your daughter now! Frame them side by side!
Posted by: DaisyCake | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 11:03 AM
That is so sweet. Your grandma is one talented lady!
Posted by: mom2fur | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 11:27 AM
What a priceless treasure!! Your grandma is a wonderful artist!
Posted by: Sheila | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 11:38 AM
What a priceless treasure! Your grandmother did a wonderful job!
Posted by: Melissa Markham | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 11:41 AM
That looks just like your mom! Wow! And just like Corrie. What a treasure.
Posted by: Lucinda | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 12:15 PM
OKay. Tears here. Just precious. What a treasure!!
Posted by: Melanie | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 12:28 PM
What an amazing gift to have. Priceless.
Posted by: lisa@take90west | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 12:38 PM
I can't really explain this, but reading your last words...my eyes filled and a lump in my throat expanded.
Amazing the effect of beautiful words sometimes....
Posted by: Robin (the pensieve one) | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 12:42 PM
Brought my eyes to tears! How Precious!!
Posted by: Angela Pridgen | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 01:09 PM
That's a great drawing full of memories. How sweet!
Posted by: Girlymom | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 01:20 PM
I didn't get to see the drawing for some reason but i bet it's amazing! What a great memory to have!
Posted by: Tiff @ The Shopping Fund | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 02:16 PM
And that my friend would be the perfect start to a chapter for your book!
Precious~
Posted by: Lysa TerKeurst | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 02:46 PM
Oh! This just makes my heart feel like it'll burst.
Posted by: Shelly | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 03:25 PM
Wow! I thought you were going to say your grandmother drew C!!! It DOES look like her! (well, pictures I've seen of her, anyway!)
How precious!
Posted by: GiBee | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 03:54 PM
Oh, that takes my breath away & I don't even know you! Just beautiful.
Posted by: Nicole @ Life in Progress | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 04:21 PM
Wow... love it. Probably my favorite post that you've ever done.
Posted by: Sarah | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 05:08 PM
What a precious heirloom!
Posted by: Karla | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 05:43 PM
Beautiful! I'm certain that she'll get it some day. I lost my grandmother last weekend and just posted about her.
Grandmothers are the sweetest!
Posted by: Headless Mom | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 06:44 PM
I agree with chickadee about printing this post to go with it. What a wonderful treasure!
Posted by: Melinda | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 07:19 PM
Very sweet.
Posted by: Pickel | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 07:27 PM
Wow, that is awesome, moments like that don't come along often1 I hope she publishes her works into a book, that would be great!
BTW - come by and grab the daily dose award.
Posted by: Regina | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 08:02 PM
How talented! It's precious...
Posted by: Beth | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 08:04 PM
How absolutely wonderful!!! Such a treasure. Thanks for sharing it.
Posted by: PJ | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 08:09 PM
Your grandmother is very talented, but what takes it over the top is that special connection. Corrie will treasure that someday. Lucky you!
Posted by: edj | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 09:15 PM
My Oh My, It's beautifully done!! What a fabulously wonderful treasure for sure!!
Posted by: momrn2 | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 09:41 PM
That was the sweetest post I have read in a long, long time. Thanks for sharing.
Posted by: Missy @ It's Almost Naptime | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 10:03 PM
What an incredible treasure!
Posted by: Brandi | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 10:12 PM
She'll treasure it forever.
Posted by: JCK | Thursday, January 24, 2008 at 10:48 PM
You brought tears to my eyes. My youngest is almost nine now. Blessings~~Dee
Posted by: Dee/reddirtramblings | Friday, January 25, 2008 at 07:29 AM
It's a wonderful drawing, and an even better keepsake. Thanks for sharing!
Posted by: Aimee | Friday, January 25, 2008 at 12:38 PM
Wow! What a gift!
Posted by: oh amanda | Friday, January 25, 2008 at 06:37 PM
What a beautiful keepsake for you and perhaps your daughter one day.
Posted by: Mary@notbefore7 | Saturday, January 26, 2008 at 06:24 PM
Even as I sit here with my sweet baby boy on my lap, I am saddened by the fact that, out of a long line of women and their daughters, I am the last...I have three sons...no daughters.
Treasure your little girl, and the history the women of your family share!
Posted by: | Saturday, January 26, 2008 at 08:40 PM
Even as I sit here with my sweet baby boy on my lap, I am saddened by the fact that, out of a long line of women and their daughters, I am the last...I have three sons...no daughters.
Treasure your little girl, and the history the women of your family share!
Posted by: AprilMay | Saturday, January 26, 2008 at 08:41 PM
wow.
Posted by: Kathryn | Monday, January 28, 2008 at 03:47 PM
How precious!
Posted by: Jen | Monday, January 28, 2008 at 03:56 PM
My gosh that is too cute! You write so well!
Posted by: kristin | Saturday, February 02, 2008 at 01:30 AM